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Scaring Fairies Off?

by Mariska
(Alaska)

I read in one of your answers that fairies may be scared off by mortals if the mortals engage in fights. My siblings will often do things to irritate me. I try not to shout at them, but sometimes I can't help it. Will the fairies know that I'm trying to stop them without shouting at them, and come back?

Ophelia Fey says -- They may come back. It depends on the types of fairies that are there. Many fairies do not like the energy of inharmony and cannot stand to be around it, despite the good intentions of some of the people involved.

Some fairies feed off discord -- but you probably do not want them around. Others may get fed up and cause mischief to get your attention and make you stop -- things suddenly falling and breaking for no apparent reason, for instance.

Fairies are about energy, feelings, vibrations. Some are more sensitive to things than others. But when things calm down, they will probably come back. However, if this is a chronic problem and environment, they may not I am sorry to say. They may, though, decide they do like you, and will hide themselves in your garden, patio, or somewhere outdoors until you come around by yourself.

Ophelia Fey, fairy

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Scaring Fairies Off?

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Fighting
by: Anonymous

Will fairies hate me? When I go to my friend's house. Her brother always picks on me and fights me. So I fight him and pick on him back. But will the fairies hate me for it? Thank you in advance.

[Ophelia Fey says] - The fairies will not hate you for this behavior, but they certainly will not want to be around it. Perhaps the reason this boy picks on you is because you react to it. He gets a reaction. Perhaps you might just try ignoring him, as picking on someone and fighting with them is very immature behavior. Just a thought.

Scaring Fairies Away
by: Faith

At times my sister and I get into fights, but in the end we apologize to one another. I did not know that fairies got scared of fights and arguments. Furthermore, my sister and I want to talk to one/meet one. How do I make them come back?

[Ophelia Fey says] - You cannot make fairies do anything. But you can try to attract them back. It is the mean vibration around you, the energy that they are feeling that scares them away. It is like a darkness around you when you fight. And it may stay for awhile.

Apologizing to each other is very good. Even better would be to not fight, of course. To try to understand the other's point of view before you get angry. And to try not to upset someone on purpose in the first place (if you know that you are doing that). Try to remember that everyone is different. Other people are not like you, they are unique. And so they will not think or feel like you, react like you, be like you. You cannot expect them to, for they are themselves. If you understand these basics, you will get rid of a lot of fighting before it begins.

There is a very wise saying: It is more important to be Kind than to be Right.

If you at least try these things, fairies will feel that you are trying and they will come back. No amount of treats and sweets, music, plants and flowers and gardens, sparkles and beads and little fairy homes will impress fairies the way basic Kindness will. Being your own best Self is the best way to attract us and to have us come back.

Thanks
by: Mariska

Thanks so much!!

You are most welcome! -- Ophelia Fey.

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